Learning from others, living wholesomely and softening our barriers.



MONTHLY REMINDER

Reader, learn everything you can, anytime you can, from anyone you can. There will always come a time you will be grateful you did.

REFLECTION PROMPTS:

  • Who taught me something important this year?
  • In what ways have I grown in the last 12 months?
  • What will I cherish and carry with me into the next 12 months and beyond?

DECEMBER'S REFLECTION PROMPT

In December, I will live well by...

Define what 'living well' means to you. Consider which attitudes, habits, rituals, rhythms, spaces, people etc. helped you live wholesomely in the last few months.


2 QUOTES WORTH PONDERING

1. Lee L. Jampolsky – author of 'Smile for No Good Reason' – on living our values:

"At least three times every day, take a moment and ask yourself what is really important. Have the wisdom and the courage to build your life around your answer."

REFLECTION PROMPTS:

  • What truly matters to me in life?
  • If all obstacles were removed, what would the design of my ideal life be?
  • How can I get out of my own way today?

2. Sufi poet, Rumi on love:

"Your task is not to seek for love, but to merely seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."

REFLECTION PROMPTS:

  • What walls (emotional, psychological, physical, spiritual) have I built?
  • What would it feel and look like to receive and accept love?
  • What would it take to soften or dissolve my rigid barriers?

POPULAR IN NOVEMBER

PODCAST EPISODE 90: Pick a number...

(a 3-minute listen)


Who do you know would benefit from or appreciate this content? Be sure to share this muse-letter with them by forwarding on this email.

USEFUL LINKS

Let's stay connected. Here's where else you can find me:

Website | Podcast | Blog | Recommended Reading List*

Not yet subscribed? You can sign up to this muse-letter here.

New to the mailing list? You can view the archive of past editions here.


About this muse-letter: You're receiving this email because you've subscribed to my mailing list. You'll typically receive an email from me once a month. Rarely will I send stand-alone emails about promotions, new products or services, and partnerships. Affiliate links within my emails are marked with an asterisk (*).

Update your subscription preferences: You can unsubscribe from 'Reflect with Rebecca-Monique', or manage your subscriber profile via the respective links below.

Rebecca-Monique (rbccmnq)

Read more from Rebecca-Monique (rbccmnq)

MONTHLY REMINDER Reader, sometimes we have to slow down in order to speed up. REFLECTION PROMPTS: What area(s) of my life would benefit from a slower pace? What gifts would slowing down offer me? With my current trajectory, where do I see myself heading in the next 30 days? What needs to change? NOVEMBER'S REFLECTION PROMPTS In November, I will give priority to the following 3 personal needs… I will honour these 3 needs by… I will protect my needs by establishing and maintaining the following...

MONTHLY REMINDER Remember Reader, you can do ANYTHING. You can do MANY THINGS. But, you cannot do EVERYTHING. REFLECTION PROMPTS: What do I value most? What/ who is truly important to me now? What directions am I stretching myself in? What will I eliminate? What single focus will give me the most leverage? OCTOBER'S REFLECTION PROMPTS In October, I will say 'yes' when… In October, I will say 'no' when… Every 'yes' is a 'no' to something else, and vice versa. When we say 'yes' from a place of...

Flowers

MONTHLY REMINDER Change - even of the welcomed variety - is as much a symbolic death as it is a (re)birth. REFLECTION PROMPTS: What’s ended for me recently? What new portal am I stepping into? What losses (material/intangible) will I be grieving? What newness will I be welcoming? SEPTEMBER'S REFLECTION PROMPTS In September, I want more… In September, I want less… Reader, your reflections can be abstract or tangible (e.g. joy or sleep). Be sure to get specific and be realistic. Define and...